Where the Children Take Us: How One Family Achieved the Unimaginable

Where the Children Take Us: How One Family Achieved the Unimaginable

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  • Author:Zain E. Asher
  • ISBN:0063048833
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Summary

In this spellbinding memoir, popular CNN anchor Zain E。 Asher pays tribute to her mother's strength and determination to raise four successful children in the shadow of tragedy。

Awaiting the return of her husband and young son from a road trip, Obiajulu Ejiofor receives shattering news。 There's been a fatal car crash, and one of them is dead。

In Where the Children Take Us, Obiajulu's daughter, Zain E。 Asher, tells the story of her mother's harrowing fight to raise four children as a widowed immigrant in South London。 There is tragedy in this tale, but it is not a tragedy。 Drawing on tough-love parenting strategies, Obiajulu teaches her sons and daughters to overcome the daily pressures of poverty, crime and prejudice--and much more。 With her relentless support, the children exceed all expectations--becoming a CNN anchor, an Oscar-nominated actor--Asher's older brother Chiwetel Ejiofor (12 Years a Slave)--a medical doctor, and a thriving entrepreneur。

The generations-old Nigerian parenting techniques that lead to the family's salvation were born in the village where young Obiajulu and Arinze meet with their country on the brink of war。 Together, they emigrate to London in the 1970s to escape the violence, but soon confront a different set of challenges in the West。

When grief threatens to engulf her fractured family after the accident, Obiajulu, suddenly a single mother in a foreign land, refuses to accept defeat。 As her children veer down the wrong path, she instills a family book club with Western literary classics, testing their resolve and challenging their deeper understanding。 Desperate for inspiration, she plasters newspaper clippings of Black success stories on the walls and hunts for overachieving neighbors to serve as role models, all while running Shakespeare theatre lines with her son and finishing homework into the early morning with Zain。 When distractions persist, she literally cuts the TV cord and installs a residential pay phone。

The story of a woman who survived genocide, famine, poverty, and crushing grief to rise from war torn Africa to the streets of South London and eventually the drawing rooms of Buckingham Palace, Where the Children Take Us is an unforgettable portrait of strength, tenacity, love, and perseverance embodied in one towering woman。

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Steve

A powerful book, beautifully written, that will stay with me for a long time。 I cried more times than I'd care to admit。 This changed the way I view parenting, community and inspiration。 A true must read。 A powerful book, beautifully written, that will stay with me for a long time。 I cried more times than I'd care to admit。 This changed the way I view parenting, community and inspiration。 A true must read。 。。。more

Drea

Put this memoir in the “THIS IS WHY WE READ” column。 Gorgeous。 Breathtaking。 Inspiring。 Nigerian-born Zain Asher tells the story of her parents and her own life which is incredible。 I loved the story about her mom’s rules as the author was in the last two years of high school and cried happy tears when the author shared her accomplishments with her mom。 The Nigerian culture is beautiful。 I’m so glad I read this book and thank Amistad Press for the opportunity to do so。 Read this one。 Have your b Put this memoir in the “THIS IS WHY WE READ” column。 Gorgeous。 Breathtaking。 Inspiring。 Nigerian-born Zain Asher tells the story of her parents and her own life which is incredible。 I loved the story about her mom’s rules as the author was in the last two years of high school and cried happy tears when the author shared her accomplishments with her mom。 The Nigerian culture is beautiful。 I’m so glad I read this book and thank Amistad Press for the opportunity to do so。 Read this one。 Have your book club read it。 Make Nigerian food and eat and talk and enjoy。 。。。more

Steve Garnache

This was a beautiful, beautiful story of sacrifice, love and tenacity。 It made me cry at so many points (tears of sadness and of joy)。 I devoured this book in two sittings。 Seriously, couldn't put it down。 Every parent needs to read this。 This was a beautiful, beautiful story of sacrifice, love and tenacity。 It made me cry at so many points (tears of sadness and of joy)。 I devoured this book in two sittings。 Seriously, couldn't put it down。 Every parent needs to read this。 。。。more

Janilyn Kocher

Where the Children Take Us is a lovely tribute to the author’s mother。 Left as a widow in 1988, with three children and one on the way, Obiajulu was a force to reckon with。 She worked long hours and demanded much from her children。 She often struggled with making her children obey, but always kept up on discipline and direction。 Parents like her create successful offspring and that’s exactly what she did。Hats off to her for never giving up。Thanks to Amistad, Edelweiss, and NetGalley for the earl Where the Children Take Us is a lovely tribute to the author’s mother。 Left as a widow in 1988, with three children and one on the way, Obiajulu was a force to reckon with。 She worked long hours and demanded much from her children。 She often struggled with making her children obey, but always kept up on discipline and direction。 Parents like her create successful offspring and that’s exactly what she did。Hats off to her for never giving up。Thanks to Amistad, Edelweiss, and NetGalley for the early read。 。。。more

Lolita

This is a story of a mother's determination through all odds to help her children succeed。 While pregnant with her fourth child, she learns her husband and son were in a car crash in which her husband died。 While enduring her own grief she finds the strength she needs to support and inspire her children。 Children who go on to exceed her expectations - becoming a medical doctor, a CNN anchor, an Oscar nomimated actor and an entrepreneur。 She refused to be defeated as she guided her children with This is a story of a mother's determination through all odds to help her children succeed。 While pregnant with her fourth child, she learns her husband and son were in a car crash in which her husband died。 While enduring her own grief she finds the strength she needs to support and inspire her children。 Children who go on to exceed her expectations - becoming a medical doctor, a CNN anchor, an Oscar nomimated actor and an entrepreneur。 She refused to be defeated as she guided her children with love by showing them the way to greatness is through perseverance in the face of adversity。 Great read。Diva Reviewer - Angelia 。。。more

Brittany

While a fairly short and quick read, this story will stick with me for some time。 Weaving both her parent's story and her own, it is very emotional and inspiring。 I'm grateful to have been able to read this。 Received in a Goodreads giveaway。 While a fairly short and quick read, this story will stick with me for some time。 Weaving both her parent's story and her own, it is very emotional and inspiring。 I'm grateful to have been able to read this。 Received in a Goodreads giveaway。 。。。more

Jen

Ms。 Asher is a gorgeous writer! I knew she was a talented badass reporter on CNN, but I didn't know she could WRITE。 This memoir of her inimitable, fierce Nigerian mother is truly beautiful。 And riveting。 I don't want to spoil anything, but I do want to say -- READ THIS。 It's inspiring, uplifting, heartbreaking。 Everything you want a truly good book to be。 Ms。 Asher is a gorgeous writer! I knew she was a talented badass reporter on CNN, but I didn't know she could WRITE。 This memoir of her inimitable, fierce Nigerian mother is truly beautiful。 And riveting。 I don't want to spoil anything, but I do want to say -- READ THIS。 It's inspiring, uplifting, heartbreaking。 Everything you want a truly good book to be。 。。。more

Cin

This read gave me a taste of everything。 The perseverance in this book was awe so inspiring and the sheer grit of the family to keep trudging forward had me captivated from page one。

Rachel

This book tells the story of a Nigerian family shattered by tragedy, and of a mother’s sacrifices for the sake of her children and their success。 The events and suffering that Obiajulu experienced are unimaginable, but even more remarkable is the strength and determination she demonstrates despite each struggle and hardship。 This story is one of triumph in the face of adversity and will inspire you to keep fighting hard。“We are nothing if not fighters。 We fight for what we want from life, we fig This book tells the story of a Nigerian family shattered by tragedy, and of a mother’s sacrifices for the sake of her children and their success。 The events and suffering that Obiajulu experienced are unimaginable, but even more remarkable is the strength and determination she demonstrates despite each struggle and hardship。 This story is one of triumph in the face of adversity and will inspire you to keep fighting hard。“We are nothing if not fighters。 We fight for what we want from life, we fight the forces that stand in our way, and most of all, we fight for our families。” 。。。more